In life, you get what you put in.

Generally speaking, the unhappiest people you will ever meet
will be those who are utterly self-absorbed; the happiest people you will ever
meet will be those who lose themselves in the joy and challenge of helping
others.
Happiness is always attained by giving it away without
expectation.  Those who help others are eventually helped.  You have
two hands, one to help yourself and the other to help those around you.
If you can lie down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone’s day
just a little brighter, you have something to smile about.  

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